Caitlin Doughty Quotes

"If we ignore our death, we end up just going around completely oblivious to why we do the things we do!"

"The definition of 'morbid' is an unhealthy preoccupation with death. Unfortunately, there's no word to mean the perfectly healthy preoccupation with death, which is what I have."

"Writing a memoir is such a private, personal experience that it's intimidating to think of adapting it for television."

"I am a mortician who tells you that you don't necessarily need a mortician."

"Death in its natural state can be very beautiful. When you think about a body that's died of natural causes - family taking care of it - all of that is very beautiful."

"In America, burial means an embalmed body in a heavy-duty casket with a vault built over it, so that the ground doesn't settle. That body is encased in many layers of denial."

"I've worked very hard to become comfortable with how death works and why it happens. I now know that death isn't out to get me."

"I think about death most of the day, every day. We can't escape death, and choosing to ignore it only makes it more scary."

"Accepting your own mortality is like eating your vegetables: You may not want to do it, but it's good for you."

"Going around not fully believing that you're going to die is really problematic because it affects how you think about the future of the planet, about the future of your own life, about the decisions you're making."

"One of the things that was most shocking to me about starting to work in the funeral industry is just how industrial the environment is."

"I want a natural burial. Just straight into the ground in a shroud."

"Ever since childhood, when I found out that the ultimate fate for all humans was death, sheer terror and morbid curiosity had been fighting for supremacy in my mind."

"All the body wants to do biologically is decompose. Once you die, it's, 'Let me out here! I'm ready to shoot my atoms back into the universe!'"

"The home funeral - caring for the dead ourselves - changes our relationship to grieving. If you have been married to someone for 50 years, why would you let someone take them away the moment they die?"

"Dying in the sanitary environment of a hospital is a relatively new concept. In the late 19th century, dying at a hospital was reserved for people who had nothing and no one. Given the choice, a person wanted to die at home in their bed, surrounded by friends and family."

"I was fascinated by mortality. Most people are, even if they don't admit it."

"Because we've never encountered a decomposing body, we can only assume they are out to get us. It is no wonder there is a cultural fascination with zombies."

"The biggest problem is the funerals that don't exist. People call the funeral home, they pick up the body, they mail the ashes to you, no grief, no happiness, no remembrance, no nothing. That happens more often than it doesn't in the United States."

"If people really knew what they were getting into with their third chemotherapy treatment, or getting a pacemaker when they're 92, if they really knew what that was going to mean, they might say no, and we should give them that information."

"For thousands of years, we did have death surrounding us, and we did have people die in the home. You would take care of your own end. You would do ritual processes, and you would be involved in it, and that's been taken away in the Western world."

"I work with a group called Compassion & Choices in California. It's attempting to get death with dignity legalised in California, the idea being that so goes California, so goes the rest of the U.S., at least."

"Treat your online affairs as part of your affairs that need to be in order - your bank, your Internet bill - you need to have people who know what you want."