Tab Hunter Quotes
Born: July 11, 1931
Tab Hunter, born Arthur Gelien in 1931, was a Hollywood golden boy whose life transcended the silver screen to become a quiet testament to resilience and authenticity. Rising to fame as a 1950s heartthrob, he later bravely lived his truth as a gay man in an unforgiving era, penning a memoir that redefined courage. His philosophy, rooted in grace under pressure and the pursuit of inner peace, speaks to the wisdom of embracing one's whole self. Hunter’s quotes resonate because they emerge from a life lived between public adoration and private struggle, offering timeless lessons on identity, love, and the gentle art of being true.
Tab Hunter Quotes (41)
"People believe what they want to believe."
— Tab Hunter"I don't care whether people like me or dislike me. I'm not on earth to win a popularity contest. I'm here to be the best human being I possibly can be."
— Tab Hunter"Rock Hudson wasn't my type. He's a great guy and had a great sense of humor."
— Tab Hunter"My nickname, when I was 15 years old in the Coast Guard, they called me 'Hollywood' because I went to the movies all the time. It was such great escapism. That's why I ran away from home."
— Tab Hunter"I'd work for John Waters again, because he's so off the wall."
— Tab Hunter"I lived a very don't-ask, don't-tell life."
— Tab Hunter"A lot has been written about Tony Perkins and myself and I figured, Let's get it straight. I had a relationship with Tony for two to three years, but those are only threads in the tapestry of my whole life."
— Tab Hunter"I knew Jimmy Dean. He tested for 'Battle Cry'. Paul Newman tested for 'Battle Cry'. I did nine tests to finally get that role."
— Tab Hunter"I learned denial from my mother. I just never confronted things and if anybody did, I just would go crazy."
— Tab Hunter"I said, God, the press and people, they just really hate me and I'm really trying. Geraldine Page said, Listen to this, Tab. If people don't like you, that's their bad taste."
— Tab Hunter"People place such importance on the external. It's disgusting."
— Tab Hunter"I wasn't an actor. They they take the externals. Here I was, a kid thrown into Hollywood with a brand-new name, starring in motion pictures."
— Tab Hunter"The people that really were important, that mattered, had a great foundation. I had no training. I had to learn while doing, and it was really difficult."
— Tab Hunter"John Wayne treated me fine, but that macho stuff turns me off. It's not real."
— Tab Hunter"Hollywood cools, and when it cools you have to go to where the work is. I ran off to Italy to do spaghetti westerns."
— Tab Hunter"I turned into a workaholic to the point of where my health was in jeopardy."
— Tab Hunter"I did Polyester, and I don't regret one minute of it. It was wonderful."
— Tab Hunter"All the things that happen to people in the industry today, the actors, what they have to put up with, all the people wanting to know every single moment of their lives - I think it's really sad."
— Tab Hunter"I was born in New York. I grew up in San Francisco, Long Beach, and Los Angeles."
— Tab Hunter"I love singing. You know, my mother always used to encourage me, 'Sing, sing,' and I was in a choir in church, yes."
— Tab Hunter"Divine was like a 400-pound beached whale. He was one of my favorite leading ladies, I've got to tell you. He was really terrific."
— Tab Hunter"I'm a very private person who grew up with a strict German mother who believed 'loose lips sink ships.'"
— Tab Hunter"Without a doubt, my sexuality was something that I just never discussed, especially in the 1950s."
— Tab Hunter"I'm very proud of 'That Kind of Woman' with Sophia Loren, directed by Sidney Lumet, and I loved doing 'Gunman's Walk' because I finally got to play a bad guy."
— Tab Hunter"There are a lot of people who have the same fears and problems I had as a young man growing up. You read about it all the time. If you can help someone in some way, terrific."
— Tab Hunter"A person's life is hopefully more than just one thing."
— Tab Hunter"I feel closest to God with a pitchfork full of crap in my hands. I'm serious!"
— Tab Hunter"People are too quick to criticize and condemn. We've got to be more positive."
— Tab Hunter"If I had come out during my acting career in the 1950s, I would not have had a career."
— Tab Hunter"I really didn't talk about my sexuality until I wrote my autobiography."
— Tab Hunter